![]() ![]() Words of affirmation focus on what we are saying, whereas quality conversation focuses on what we are hearing. By quality conversation, Chapman means sympathetic dialogue where two individuals are sharing their experiences, thoughts, feelings, and desires in a friendly, uninterrupted context. One of the most common dialects is that of quality conversation. Spending time with your mate in a common pursuit communicates that you care about each other, that you enjoy being with each other, that you like to do things together. If your mate’s primary love language is quality time, your spouse simply wants you, being with them, spending time. This is important because we cannot get emotional love by way of demand. You are introducing the element of choice. When you make a request of your spouse, you are affirming his or her worth and abilities. We can choose to live today free from the failures of yesterday. ![]() Sometimes our words say one thing, but our tone of voice says another. We must first learn what is important to our spouse. Giving verbal compliments is one way to express words of affirmation to your spouse. Verbal compliments, or words of appreciation, are powerful communicators of love. When your spouse’s emotional love tank is full and they feel secure in your love, the whole world looks bright and your spouse will move out to reach their highest potential in life.
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